Thoughts & Inspiration From Wendy

Snapshots of Gratitude & Growth
This past weekend, we had our annual Carpe Diem Cleaning celebration. It’s a definite mile marker in my life. To see how far we have come, sometimes how far we

Celebrating Courage and Connection: Leadership Lessons from a Transformative Weekend
Courage is what brings us together today. Leadership is our relationship with relationships. Our greatest joys and our greatest pains are our relationships. Relationships matter. Leadership is the skillset of

Relationship With Cost
True Equation for a Flourishing Life This week, I have been reminded at every turn of the true equation of a flourishing life. Trusting people regardless of their dysfunction equals

Migratory Butterflies and the Gift of Becoming
I love the season I’m in. One of the quotes I’ve been reflecting on lately is, “We do not fall in love with others; we fall in love with the

All Bark, No Bite: Leadership Lessons from the Dentist
Life is life though some times life is death or life is just living. BUT mostly life is life. Life is Leadership. Leadership is our relationship with relationships even with

THE GIFT OF UBUNTU AND NATURE
Morning My friends, Last Thursday I was given the gift of Ubuntu, and it was a magical moment, made possible by the gift of us. Malik Muhammed honored us with

The Gifts of Learning
I had the honor of sitting under an amazing artist, Garrick Brown, at the Garrick Brown Art Studio. A few years ago, I discovered a love for poured acrylic art—guided

How Leadership Growth Transformed My Journey
There’s a concept in leadership called the Law of the Lid, introduced by John C. Maxwell in The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership. The idea is simple yet profound: your

🌱 Growth isn’t always obvious.
One powerful takeaway I had earlier this year from Dr. Hardy event was the importance of setting both quantitative and qualitative goals. While it’s easier to measure the numbers, there

Lessons from Mini-Golf.
Parenting is the most entrepreneurial thing we do- Wendy K Clark. The Gift of Maturing The reality is whether we are in our professional lives or personal lives, who we

The Invisible Force of Leadership: Building Trust and Culture
Leadership is often difficult to define practically, but it’s undeniable in its impact. John Maxwell said, “If talent is the same between two teams, leadership will determine the winner.” I

Proximity’s Illusion: Learning to Judge Life Beyond What’s Near
“Creative people are always inventing their past, present, and future.” I don’t think life is as objective as we would like to think it is. Discovering the lens in which

Herbie & The Squirrels
The other day, my friend, Dawn Drew, came over. She got to witness my personal “nature channel,” which features Herbie the cat and Bob the squirrel. Every day, Bob, the

Lessons in Confidence
I am sitting here in Atlanta with my earphones in. One ear is connected to the computer and the other to my phone. I hear chairs squeak as people pull

The Courage to Trust: Lessons from the Giraffe and the Turtle
Years ago, I heard T.D. Jakes share a powerful analogy: the giraffe and the turtle can occupy the same land but have very different perspectives. This resonated deeply with me,

Lessons From Light Underseas
We often think that we’re thinking objectively. The reality is that we aren’t. During my quiet time today, I read The First Five Pages by Noah Lukeman, recommended by Amber

A Dream Interview with Dr. Benjamin Hardy
I’ve had the privilege of being on the leadership team for EO Raleigh Durham since 2018, and this year, as the Learning Chair, I’ve been given opportunities that truly align

Choosing Healthy Relationship & Hard Conversations
There are only three options for relationships: One of the key elements for healthy relationship is the ability to listen. To listen to others and for them to listen to

The Gift of Small, Consistent Steps
I am in a growth season of life. Part of growth is the fact that it includes short-term pain and that sucks. However, it’s worth the cost. In this season,

Embracing the Beautiful Chaos
“The days are long, but the years are short.” I wanted to capture this moment. When I started Carpe Diem, I hated cleaning (actually, I still do), but it gave

Creating a Pain Budget
“The only thing more difficult than the emotional toll of the pursuit of excellence, is the emotional toll of not pursuing excellence.” – Andy Bailey The word “delusion” has always

Finding Your Tribe
“Surround yourself with relentless humans. People who plan in decades, but live in moments. Train like savages, but create like artists. Obsess in work, relax in life. People who know

Throwing Axes & Finding Balance
One of my secret goals this year is to learn how to have healthy fun! Fun is a skillset—it’s something I’ve wanted but struggled to prioritize. As I focused on

Rediscovering the Power of Questions
“Why is Plop afraid? Have you ever seen an owl? (She hasn’t seen an owl before.) What is that light on the wall? Why is the window creating the light?

Sandy, A True Friend & Her Lasting Impact
A few years ago, I lost a very special friend of mine, Sandy. I recently saw some photos show up on my phone that reminded me of a very special

The Weight of Words
In my journey to enhance my relational skills and leadership, I recently delved into David Brooks’ “How to Know a Person.” One passage on power dynamics and hard conversations profoundly

Carpe Diem Cleaning Sponsors Wildflower Project
Today, I’m thrilled to announce that my dream to sponsor a wildflower area in the area is coming to fruition!

Turning Life’s Valleys into Peaks
One of the secrets in life is that the “good” that comes to us is in direct relationship with how we handle the valleys. The results of today’s choices is

Invest Wisely: Treat Emotional Energy like Financial Assets
What if we treated our emotional energy budget like our financial budget?

The Healing Journey of Taking One Step
Some moments in our lives call for a level of courage in the midst of pain that we don’t think we have. In those moments of deep despair where all